The best self-discipline for adults: be careful of making friends, read more, and talk less.

The best self-discipline for adults: be careful of making friends, read more, and talk less.

Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.

the world is complicated and full of temptations.

carelessness in making friends will put you in danger. If you lust for pleasure, you will lack your spirit. If you follow others, it is easy to damage your own blessings.

the best self-discipline for an adult: be careful of making friends, read more, and talk less.

be careful to make friends, you can avoid the scourge of villains. Reading more can nourish the beauty of the soul. Don't talk nonsense, you can save your mouth and be blessed.

as long as you do the above three points, you can have more joy and less annoyance in life.


be careful to make friends, you can avoid the scourge of villains

"A gentleman should choose carefully and should not be associated with poisonous beasts."

during the Spring and Autumn period of Zhao, Sun Bin, a famous military strategist, studied under Gui Guzi together with Pang Juan.

Sun Bin is smart, studious and down-to-earth.

and Pang Juan, who could not resist the temptation of wealth and loneliness in the mountains, resigned from the mountain after hearing that the King of Wei released the list of seeking talents.

before leaving, he told Sun Bin that if one day he was reused, he would also recommend Sun Bin to the King of Wei and share the glory.

seeing Sun Bin becoming more and more sophisticated in the art of war, Gui Guzi privately passed on his 13 pieces of art of war to him. After Sun Bin finished his study, he went down the mountain to Pang Juan.

Gui Guzi hinted to him that Pang Juan was narrow-minded and should not have a deep acquaintance, but Sun Bin disagreed and did not take the teacher's words to heart.

when Pang Juan saw Sun Bin, he was very enthusiastic on the surface, but secretly jealous inside. He knew full well that he was not as intelligent as Sun Bin and was worried that his arrival would take his place in the State of Wei.

therefore, he went forward to slander in the face of the King of Wei, saying that Sun Yizhi was in Qi but not in Wei, causing the King of Wei to punish Sun Bin.

Sun Bin, who finally learned the truth, regretted that it was too late and lamented that he was careless in making friends.

as an example, when we make friends, we must be careful and learn to know people.

if in the course of communication, it is found that the other party's conduct is not correct and narrow-minded, you must not continue to have a deep friendship.

only with good conduct can one know how to be humble and down-to-earth.

only by being broad-minded can one keep all things and be kind and kind.

go with good friends, such as a good teacher. Go the same way with bad friends, such as poisonous beasts.


more reading can cultivate the beauty of the soul

Ouyang Xiu said, "the establishment of the body is based on learning, and the establishment of learning is based on reading."

self-cultivation begins with learning, and learning is based on reading. Learn to cultivate oneself and read books to nourish the mind.

in fact, you should pay attention to the method of reading.

Mr. Lu Xun said:

sometimes we want to read, but we don't know where to start. If you are forced to read books that you are not interested in, it is easy to get tired of reading.

but if we start with our favorite books first, it will be easier to stick to them and read them carefully every day.

in this way, you can form the good habit of loving reading.

once we fall in love with reading, in the long run, we will read more and more kinds of books.

first form the habit of loving reading, and then go to more areas of books.

when we encounter a difficult place in the process of reading, Mr. Lu Xun suggests to us:

"if you encounter questions and only see that place, you will not understand it no matter how long you see it."

so jump over, move on, and understand even the previous place. "

when you have questions in reading, don't blindly cut corners. Every book has a clear and consistent theme.

there are some places that are difficult to understand, so you might as well go over them for a while. When you read the complete book, you will naturally understand what was once difficult to understand.

as long as we master the method of reading well, we can read good books and read well.

if you read more books, your soul will be nourished, your horizons will be broadened, and your soul will naturally become full and full, no longer in want.


Don't talk nonsense, but leave your mouth and blessing

"Don't listen to gossip, don't say gossip." Don't talk nonsense, say more nice things. "

A sign of maturity is to learn to be cautious in words and deeds.

if you want to establish a harmonious relationship with others, you must talk less, do not compete with them for the glory of fireflies, and do not try to speak quickly.

if a person starts to know each other and speaks eloquently about right and wrong, then most of them are not good people, and it is difficult to get along with them.

only those who know how to praise can stay away from the war of words and have a pleasant conversation with everyone.

the poet Blake once said, "praise makes you easy."

when you are not stingy with your own praise to others, you will find that what is rewarded is the most beautiful words in the world.

listen less to other people's gossip, it's none of your business. If you don't talk about other people's gossip, who is not what other people call gossip?

can say good things, but don't lie. Save virtue for yourself and give blessings to others.

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