Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
in life, we can't avoid dealing with people.
some people seem warm-hearted, but in fact they are selfish; some people, seemingly aloof, have a warm heart.
as the ancients said, "watering trees requires watering roots, and making friends requires heart to heart."
if you are blinded by the other person's surface, you are likely to fall into each other's trap in the end.
to make friends with others, you would rather have a deep acquaintance with people who are simpler and more stupid, but also try to avoid association with "smart ghosts" who are not in the right mind.
when such people talk, they often make people who are really kind feel guilty.
because what they say is too selfless and considerate of others.
this kind of high standard, very few people can meet. For example, in order to show their nobility, they say something that returns good for evil, so as to make others feel good about them.
there are indeed people who return good for evil, but very few.
they express their tolerance and kindness with great fanfare, but they never practice it.
people who are really kind don't know how to say beautiful words, and they don't have to say beautiful words, because they will prove them by their actions.
those who use clever words only try to win the favor of others with words, and even ask others according to their own high standards, but they never practice them.
such bad guys in the cloak of goodness should be vigilant.
those who regard sincerity as bargaining chips are the most unsentimental.
sometimes we treat each other as relatives and friends, but each other regards this sincerity as a bargaining chip that they can use.
how can I see it?
you will find that the more you think of them, or even sacrifice yourself to fulfill them, the more they will go further and take it for granted.
if you refuse, they will label you as heartless.
however, if you think about it carefully, it is clear that these unkind hats are the most suitable for them.
if you make a request to them, he refuses you with a ridiculous excuse. However, when you turn around, you still have to use "we are relatives" and "we are friends" to make all kinds of demands on you, so that you are embarrassed to offend.
for this kind of people, have they ever known how to write the word "affection"? In their eyes, there is nothing but interest.
what they call "affection" is not the obligation they want to perform, but the bargaining chip of others.
Let's be cruel to such seemingly affectionate relatives and friends. If you should refuse, refuse decisively.
remember, for mercenary people, there is no need for affection.
have a deep acquaintance with those who have a simple mind.
the ancients said, "to make friends with good people is like entering the room of Zhi orchid and not hearing its fragrance for a long time."
simple-minded people are not stupid, but because they have their own principles and bottom lines, and disdain to play with tricks.
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when you get along with such people, you will unwittingly be assimilated by their noble conduct and become noble yourself.
as the saying goes, "the gentleman is magnanimous, the villain is sad".
Gentlemen do things openly, be simple and have a clear conscience, so they will not attract unnecessary troubles;
villains are always thinking of benefiting themselves at the expense of others, while they will be resented by others if they succeed, and they will be discouraged if they fail.
so, how can you be in a stable state of mind?
when you get along with people with deep thoughts and bad intentions, you need to be on the lookout for them.
when you get along with people who are simple in mind and pure in heart, you don't have to be nervous all the time. As long as you hand over a piece of sincerity, you can get their best reward and sincerity.
some people say: "low-level people, complex; high-level people, simple."
I think so.
the so-called "the main road is simple". When people get along with others, there is no need to cheat each other.
any opportunistic tricks will eventually come out one day, and then how to deal with themselves?
treat others with sincerity, not only for yourself, but also for others. In the end, we can all get respect and closeness to each other, so why not?