After middle age, you don't have to explain yourself to others.

After middle age, you don't have to explain yourself to others.

Good morning, accompany you to read.

people live in the world, it is difficult to adjust the mouth of others, no matter how kind you are, in the eyes of those who hate you, you are hypocritical, no matter how you pay, in the eyes of ungrateful people, you are just an outsider.

No matter how hard and excellent you are, in the eyes of those who like to be jealous, you are just lucky, and no matter how generous you are, in the eyes of penny-pinching people, you are stingy.

as the saying goes: those who know me say I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want.

those who understand you do not need to explain, and those who do not understand you do not need to explain.

if my life will come to an end, if I insist on it all, life will not be easy, and there is no need to yearn for other people's understanding and recognition.

We can't control what other people think and we can't force them to do what they do.

the only thing we can do is to try our best to do our own thing, go our own way, and quietly live our own life according to our own principles.

if the heart does not move, what can the wind do? if you are not hurt, the years will be all right.

01

people who understand you are self-evident, and those who don't know you can't argue.

in this world, everyone has their own values, joys and sorrows are not the same, and not many people understand you. Sometimes, life will be much easier if you don't explain what you do.

by the same token, in society, everyone has their own distinct propositions and personalities. Don't try to change others with your own thoughts, let alone try to control others, and don't ask others to understand you. Others have no such obligation.

if people who understand you do not explain, they will also understand you. People who do not understand you will have more and more misunderstandings as they explain, and there will be more and more trouble.

because you are getting darker and darker, don't say it clearly, explain, sometimes you can eliminate misunderstandings and gain understanding, but sometimes, others may interpret your explanation as a cover-up.

as a human being, you don't need to explain too much. You will find that you are the one who is thankless and tired. If it is right, why explain? time will tell. If it is wrong, there is no need to explain, time will correct everything.

it is the wise man's choice not to explain too much.

the mountain does not explain its height, does not affect its towering clouds, the sea does not explain its own depth, does not affect it to accommodate all rivers, the earth does not explain its own thickness, but no one can replace her as the carrier of all things.

Human feelings are so sophisticated, always so complicated, people know each other, if you know, why say more, if you don't understand, why explain? Those who understand do not need to explain, and those who do not need to explain.

living in the world, you will meet all kinds of people, some people understand you, it is inevitable that some people do not understand you, some people believe you, someone must question you.

you can't decide what other people think and say, but the only thing you can do is to be magnanimous and clean, without explanation, as long as you do your best, and you will have a clear conscience.

02

have a clear conscience and be yourself

Haruki Murakami said: "not all fish live in the same sea."

We come from different places, different circles have different lives, people who don't understand you say more to him is nonsense, don't waste time, just be yourself, and leave the rest to time.

Don't argue with those who are in debt. People who have a good life are busy enjoying life, and those who can't see others will try to use their own bitterness to cut away other people's happiness.

living in the world, no matter how pure you are, in some people's narrow worldview, you are complex and sophisticated, no matter how kind you are, in the eyes of ungrateful people, you are willing.

you are smart, people will say you are smooth, you work hard, people will say you rely on luck, you are naturally optimistic, some people will say you are hypocritical, no matter how perfect you are, it will be difficult for everyone to like you.

Why bother to care too much about other people's comments, stick to your heart, be yourself, and don't live in the eyes of others.

people who really understand you can understand you even if you don't say a word, but those who don't understand you, even if you explain endlessly, they are only dismissive in her eyes, but tired you, laborious and thankless.

your life is your own, you don't need to be understood, and other people's lives are theirs, so don't judge other people's lives.

be yourself, everything goes with fate, any kind of relationship, people who know you believe you don't need to explain, and vice versa.

time is changing, people are changing, there are some things, there is no need to explain. Trust or not, between people's thoughts, live themselves, people who understand you, do not need to explain, people who do not understand you, why explain.

be a man first, then do something, be a kind person, do good things, and keep your mind at ease.

Life is your own. You can live whatever you want. You never need to be accountable to anyone, you don't need to frame yourself in a fixed shelf, and you never need to waste your breath with unnecessary people.

you don't have to belittle yourself, let alone wronged yourself in order to cater to others.

to be a man and do things, you don't need everyone to understand. You just want to have a clear conscience and always believe that those who understand you don't have to explain, and those who don't understand you don't have to explain.

it is a kind of happiness to be yourself and live happily.