Don't love too much, don't stay up too late, don't think too much.

recently, a friend often complained to me: "Life and work are so tired. I don't know how to go on."

I didn't answer.

because I know that everyone has already had the answer in his heart, but he just doesn't have the courage to take that step.

nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, and the more you are at a loss, the more suffering you will suffer.

there are many things that need to be tempered over time before you can get the answer.

and all we can do is to take every step of the present and live every day of the present.

Don't love too much for the rest of your life, don't stay up too late, and don't think too much. Time will give you the best answer.

01

Don't be too full of love. Be kind to yourself

has heard the saying: "Don't love others more than you love yourself."

because in a relationship, the more you give, the more likely you are to get hurt.

but there are so many girls who are so devoted to love that they lose themselves and can't extricate themselves.

after she married her husband Guo Xiaodong, actress Cheng Lisa arranged all the time in her life around her husband.

every time her husband goes out to pick her up at the airport, she will wait at home every time her husband comes home from filming.

her husband does not allow her to wear a short skirt, so she wears a long dress that sweeps the floor all day; she wants a second child. She gave more than 100 injections regardless of her body.

but later, in the wife's Romantic Journey, she told Xie Na, who had just given birth, not to give up her career.

because Cheng Lisa has never made a film since she got married, and now, of course, no one will ask her to do a movie.

Cheng Lisa, who finished this sentence, looked lost and remorseful.

because she knows that she has lost herself in this time when she loved her husband with all her heart.

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when the moon is full, it loses; when the water is full, it overflows. There are many things in life that go too far.

if you just give blindly, in the end, you will not only lose yourself, but also difficult to get the respect of others.

at the beginning of his career, actor Tang Aster did not hesitate to give up everything and marry Cao Yunjin.

but not long after happiness, the news of divorce broke out between the two.

Cao Yunjin responded: "since they got married, it has been the man who has been supporting the family and the woman who has no income."

because I marry you, I give up my job, because I love you, I have children for you, but in the end you say that I am not self-motivated and rely on you to support me.

Tang Aster was so enthusiastic that he was watered down at last.

later, she posted a long message:

"it is my personal wish to give up my career and devote myself to my family after marriage, and I have no regrets. But I found that blindly giving can not necessarily be exchanged for understanding, and excited love can not always be kept fresh. "

many people try their best to love others and look forward to their responses.

but you love others so hard that you forget that you also need to be loved.

Bi Shumin said in "May you have a warm embrace with the world": "it is better to love yourself than to wait for others to love you."

to love others too much is to hurt yourself irresponsibly.

in a relationship, the most comfortable way to get along should be to love each other seven percent and love yourself three percent.

in this way, even a person can manage his own life well and live a full and happy life.

lucky to meet the right person, have the courage to hold your hand, and have a happy life.

having the ability to love yourself and the ability to love others is just the right life.

02

Don't stay up too late, the rest of your life is very short

some time ago, there was a joke on the Internet that "people who beat workers during the day and stay up late at night", but in fact, this is not the norm for most people.

stay up late for a while, but it is health and life that are virtually overdrawn.

my best friend changed a job at the beginning of the year. She was already working hard during the day, and she was reluctant to put down her cell phone after work at night, so she stayed up later and later.

some time ago, she felt an inexplicable throbbing pain in her heart. I tried to persuade her to have a good rest, but she didn't take it seriously. "I'm still young, no problem."

I thought it was just an episode, but when I heard from her again, it was the news that she fainted and was in hospital.

the doctor diagnosed that staying up late for a long time caused insufficient blood supply to the brain and would suddenly fall down.

fortunately, as long as you cooperate with the treatment and cultivate yourself for a period of time, there will be no big problem.

the hospital is overcrowded, and the corridors are full of beds, not to mention the fact that the accompanying cots find it difficult to roll over.

looking at the vaguely white hair on the back of her parents' head, she tried to communicate with the doctor in broken Putonghua, and her best friend felt remorse.

but now think about what will happen to her parents if she really falls down.

We have heard the truth of going to bed early and getting up late and hurting ourselves thousands of times, but we still try our best to ruin our bodies:

We think that working late at night is easier to generate inspiration, so we never stop until the wee hours of the morning.

always thinking that it belongs to us only in the dead of night, so we stay up the latest night with the most expensive hair tonic.