Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
in this world, some people work hard all their lives and still accomplish nothing. The root cause of
is that you can't recognize your position.
either overestimate one's own ability, high vision leads to mediocrity;
or too belittle one's own strength, fear leads to inaction.
as the old saying goes, "those who do not lose their place for a long time, those who die but do not die live a long life."
does not overestimate oneself, it is a realm
George Bernard Shaw once said:
people are like this, always feel that they can do anything, always think that they are very important, always think that others can not do without me …...
little do you know that fish will die if they leave the water, and the fish will be clear if the water leaves them.
the greatest stupidity of being a man is to overestimate yourself.
A friend told such a story.
some time ago, the whole country set off an upsurge of setting up stalls. Everyone is rubbing their hands and getting ready for a big fight.
A, an old classmate, is also one of them.
he was originally an employee of a local institution, but he is always free because of his simple work.
so he attributed this leisure to his strong ability, so he was able to work well.
with this "self-confidence", he proudly began the road of "setting up a night stall", thinking that depending on his own strength, he would make a lot of money.
who knows, he gave up after only three days.
"I thought it would be easy to set up a stall. Just buy something, set up a stall, buy low and sell high, but only when I did it did I find that I completely overestimated my ability.
those people who set up stalls will observe which customers have a strong desire to buy, and which people can win through hard work although they are hesitant. I can't. I can't tell my goals from potential customers at all. "
to be a man, you can never overestimate yourself.
Buffett, the god of stock, once said: "only when the tide recedes, will you know who has been swimming naked."
the truth will come out one day about how capable and talented a person is.
if you take yourself too seriously, you will only hurt the most; if you praise yourself too high, you will often fall worse.
only by seeing clearly your true level and putting yourself in the right position can you walk more steadily.
after all, when you can look at yourself, you can see who you really are and the world.
not belittling yourself is a kind of wisdom
I don't know if you have such an experience:
you obviously know how to do this problem, but choose to bow silently for fear of being said to be in the limelight;
the company runs for excellent employees at the end of the year, and you always recommend others, never dare to recommend yourself.
someone praises you that you can match and have good taste, but you immediately shake your head and deny it, saying that you just wear it casually....
unconsciously, I let myself feel inferior and trapped my life.
I always feel that I can't do it, so I always deny myself; I always think that I don't have enough strength; I don't dare to try anything.
the only way is to try to get rid of inferiority and be a person who believes in yourself.
just like Sanmao's experience of comforting his fans.
she had a female fan at that time who was not satisfied with her appearance since she was a child.
then more and more inferior, more and more unhappy.
later, in her reply to her, Sanmao comforted her like this:
"if I were you, the first thing I would do is to increase my expectations and value myself, sweep away the string of words of inferiority from my life, and never despise myself."
because my own life is getting richer bit by bit, it's too late to enjoy myself, and I still think so much. "
I think so.
in life, everyone is unique, so there is no need to belittle your own existence for the sake of the opinions of others.
only if you think highly of yourself, can you get applause from others on the stage of life.
otherwise, you won't even dare to take the stage, how can you talk about dressing up?
find the right position, and you win
Laozi says in the Book of morality, "those who know others are wise, those who know themselves are wise."
the most important thing is to see yourself clearly.
Guo Degang once talked about such a thing in the program.
many years ago, when Yue Yunpeng became popular, there was an endless stream of film crews looking for him.
as his fame grows, Yue Yunpeng's heart becomes more and more inflated and becomes a little impetuous.
at this time, Guo Degang found Yue Yunpeng and poured cold water on him:
"Why do I ask you to film? is it because you can act? You can, or you can't.
but you have to remember that you are talking about crosstalk. People come to you not because you are so good at acting, but because you talk about crosstalk in Deyun Society. You still have some wrist, and you use you to add color to their show.
Desiring to be the Belle of the ball with top quality yet low priced satin wedding dresses? Stop here and you will feel lucky to enter this catalog.
so many actors who specialize in film and television acting in China Opera and Nortel do not have a job, so why should they call you? Is it because of your excellent acting skills? No, no! When you were selling noodles at the fried sauce noodle restaurant, why didn't they ask you to shoot? Do you really think you are Mr. Yue and Uncle Yue? "
this lesson woke Yue Yunpeng up instantly, and from then on he focused on crosstalk and devoted himself to learning skills.
it is with a solid foundation that there is a later star path calmly.
thus it can be seen that it is easy to succeed if you recognize your own strength and then work hard.
so don't think of luck as a talent, don't think of the platform as a skill.
keeping a clear understanding of yourself all the time is the prerequisite for success.
the best state of life is to recognize yourself and keep your heart.
as the ancients said, "if you have talent but slow nature, you must be a great talent, wise and gentle, and you are great wisdom."
in this life, only by putting oneself in the right position and humility can one be stable and far away.