Good luck, good luck, not as good as a good state of mind.

I have read such a sentence: "your state of mind is your blessing."

how a person lives depends to a large extent on his state of mind.

people with a bad state of mind, no matter how capable they are, it is very difficult to live a good life.

the key to the quality of life has always been ourselves.

good luck and good luck are not as good as your state of mind.

01

brave people,

regard adversity as the best lesson in life

Psychology, there is an effect called Festinger's Law.

that is, 10% of life is made up of what happens to you, while the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens.

that is to say, what kind of state of mind you have, what kind of life you have.

2019 is probably the last year that Li Bin, founder of Xilai Motor, wants to recall.

in that year, he lost more than 10 billion yuan, the money on the account could not last more than a month, the stock price fell to the red line of delisting, and he was also known as the "worst man".

but Li Bin did not give up because of this and has been actively looking for ways to break the situation.

Fortunately, fate has never been unkind to everyone who strives to make progress. With his insistence, he has found an endorsement of 7 billion investment.

this company, which is on the verge of bankruptcy, began to have down-to-earth development opportunities and ushered in one good news after another.

A year later, the stock price and market capitalization of Xilai increased dozens of times, handing over a financial report that exceeded the expectations of the industry.

later, Li Bin said in an interview: "Weilai has been successfully transferred from ICU to the general ward, and now it is ready to walk around." A seemingly simple and easy joke, behind the experience of despair we can not imagine.

but it is precisely this mentality that regards adversity as an experience that Li Bin was able to lead Wei to fight a beautiful turnaround.

there are always eight or nine out of ten unpleasant things in life.

We have no control over what happens in life, but it is certain that if we choose a negative attitude, the war of life is doomed to defeat.

it is common to have ups and downs in life. Maintaining a good state of mind is a person's greatest capital.

as Giggs said:

learn to adjust your state of mind, cultivate yourself in adversity, and sharpen your soul in precipitation.

only by cultivating virtue in prosperity and mindfulness in adversity can we finally win the battle of life.

02

Happy people

know how to be grateful for what they have

psychologist Alfred Adler once said:

A lot of times, we feel that we are out of luck, not because there is something wrong with life, but because there is something wrong with the way we look at things.

Cai Lan told a short story about his trip in the program.

while traveling in Spain, he met an old man who was fishing.

he looked closer and saw that the fish caught were very small, so he advised the old man that the fish were huge a little farther away.

as a result, the old man replied, "Sir, I caught breakfast."

this sentence enlightened Cai Lan.

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Happiness is not wealth or fame, but comes from your attitude towards life.

the same thing, people with a good mindset know how to be content, face it with a positive attitude, and be grateful for the gifts of life.

while those who are greedy in their hearts are not satisfied with their excessive demands, fail to see the hope and beauty around them, and live in pain forever.

Hu Jiushao, a native of Jinxi in the Ming Dynasty, came from a poor family. He worked as a teacher in a private school while farming a few mu of thin fields at home, barely making ends meet.

but every day at dusk, Hu Jiushao would go to the door to burn incense and thank God for giving him another day of happiness.

his wife laughed at him: "We eat three meals a day full of vegetable porridge. What is this called Qingfu?"

Hu Jiushao replied in this way:

it is said that phase is born from the heart, and the environment is created by the heart.

people live a lifetime, not to live a state of mind.

Wealth and status are important, but sometimes having too much requires more pressure and it is difficult to be happy.

those who are really happy do not have more, but ask for less and know how to be contented.

Life may be good or bad, but happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, why not choose a good state of mind.

the best shortcut to happiness is that the heart is one inch wide and the road is one foot wide.

03

Smart people,

take control of everything in life

in fact, the farther you go in life, the more things you need to carry.

but with too much burden, it is inevitable that the pace is heavy and become a stumbling block to oneself.

We often say, "those who set their minds to it are tired, but those who don't care don't care."

sometimes, stick to what you should adhere to, discard what should be discarded, and clear your heart before you can make the right choice.

I have seen such a story.

in the past, two mountain climbers always made an appointment to climb together and conquered snow-capped mountains, large and small.

once, they heard that very few people had successfully reached the top of a snowy mountain, and the two men decided to challenge again.

everything went well at first, seeing that it was less than 100 meters from the peak, but the weather began to change at this time.

the snow continues to thicken, and the strong wind makes the two people lose their way. The peak is close at hand, but it seems out of reach.

A thinks that safety is important, as long as you preserve your strength.Believe in yourself and you can still start again in the future.

while B seems to be able to reach the top soon, I am reluctant to go back now, although there is still a next time, but there is no sense of achievement.

there was an argument between the two people, and no one could convince each other, and finally A turned and retreated, and B moved on.

but just at the last step from the top of B, the strong wind swallowed him up in an avalanche.

at the foot of the mountain, everyone was grateful for An and lamented that he was blessed by fate, but A just shook his head and said nothing.

but the so-called luck is actually knowing how to choose.

the same is true of life, there are choices everywhere, sometimes there is an abyss, and a step back is a pity.

but the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose something.

you know, you can't have both a fish and a bear's paw. Owning and losing are always equal.

the only thing you can do is to adjust your mindset and make your heart a little easier so that you can find what you really want and live thoroughly and freely.

04

Zhou Guoping said:

so how to maintain a good state of mind?

in fact, to take apart the "state of mind" is to have a bigger heart.

when you have a big heart, things will be small, and difficulties will pass;

when you have a big heart, your anger will go smoothly, and you will not be tired;

if you have a big heart, you will have less trouble, and your life will be rich.

there is no insurmountable hurdle in life. Having a good state of mind is the cure for everything.

click [watching], and may you keep a good state of mind and have a good life.