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some people have made statistics that according to the average life expectancy of 76 years, human life is less than 30,000 days.
A person's life seems to be long, but in fact it is short. He seems to have a lot, but few really belong to him.
the more you go back, the more you understand that no matter how lucky and lucky you are, you can't afford to overdraft at will.
every time you splurge, you are paying for it with your future.
Don't overdraw the relationship
someone on the Internet asked:
there are eight delusions about interpersonal relationships:
Don't think that you have a close relationship with your friends, and your friends' things are yours.
Don't think that just because you have a close relationship with your friends, you can let your friends pay for you.
Don't think that just because you have a close relationship with your friends, you can invade your friends' personal space.
Don't think that just because you have a strong relationship with your friends, you can stick with your friends every day.
Don't think that just because you have a close relationship with your friends, you don't pay attention to etiquette.
Don't think that just because you have a close relationship with your friends, you can borrow money at will.
Don't think that just because you have a close relationship with your friend, you can let her (him) decide your affairs.
Don't think that you can rely on your friends for the rest of your life just because you have a strong relationship with your friends.
most of the time, because we feel that the relationship is strong, we become unscrupulous and take all our efforts for granted, but in fact, there is a "relationship account" between people.
if you take the initiative, you will have more balance in your account, but if you keep waiting and asking passively, you will be overdrawing the other person's feelings.
all relationships have a quota and cannot afford to be squandered willfully, and this relationship ends when the balance becomes zero.
blindly consuming the good of others will only lead to the other person's complete disappointment and abandonment.
only giving can get paid, and only sincerity can get sincerity.
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A good relationship should be a tree you planted together.
you don't have to take care of it every day. When you are free, you will water it and weed it.
when you are happy, it will blossom and bear fruit for you; when you are sad, it will provide you with support and shelter from the wind and rain.
you don't have to get in touch with each other all the time, but you miss each other; when you're not around, you stay in your heart.
Don't overdraw credit
if you don't believe, you can't move an inch.
the writer Li Siyuan once told a story.
Lao Wang and Lao Zhang were originally very good friends.
five years ago, Lao Wang wanted to open a shop and do decoration business, so he borrowed 50,000 yuan from Lao Zhang and promised to pay it off in two years at the most.
Lao Zhang withdrew his savings for many years without saying a word. out of trust, he did not ask Lao Wang to make an IOU.
two years later, Lao Wang made a small profit in business and bought a car and a house, but didn't mention returning the money.
Lao Zhang went to the door to urge him.
who knows, as soon as Lao Wang heard about the repayment, he pushed three blocks and four, and even deliberately disappeared, and later even blocked the phone.
the two families quarreled like enemies. In the end, Lao Wang didn't pay back the money, and Lao Zhang suffered a dumb loss because he had no evidence.
when the people in the village knew about it, they all scolded Lao Wang for being unkind.
two years later, when the village was demolished, many families needed to decorate their new houses, but even if Lao Wang's decoration price was tens of thousands cheaper than others, no one was willing to look for him.
perhaps a person can use his own credit to obtain certain benefits at the beginning, but all the benefits gained by selling trust will eventually pay a heavy price.
if you betray the trust of others, you will cut off your own back.
Franklin once said:
the greatest bankruptcy in life is the overdraft of credit.
Don't overdraw your feelings
I have read a sentence:
"A good relationship must be equal, pay regardless of return, and most of the final harvest will be a chill."
not long ago, the divorce of the famous table tennis player Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie caused a heated discussion.
as a talented girl in table tennis, she did not hesitate to let go of her dream of being a world champion for the sake of her family and left Japan to go to Taipei to become a full-time mother.
in order to suit Jiang Hongjie's Taipei taste, she practiced her cooking skills and made several tricks for each meal.
at home, like a babysitter, she would wait for Jiang Hongjie to come back every day, help him take off his clothes, and even kneel down and take off his shoes.
can be so heart-to-heart to pay, but never in exchange for each other's treasure.
during pregnancy, Fukuhara Ai once wanted to drink two kinds of fruit juices, but Jiang Hongjie disagreed and asked her to buy only one.
Fukuhara Ai wanted to buy a book specifically to record the growth of her child, but Jiang Hongjie also opposed it.
in this one-way relationship, she consumed all her enthusiasm, but never got a response from the other person.
until I was discouraged, I woke up:
feelings humble to the dust never blossom into happiness.
Gulong once said:
not all desperate people can get the love of each other.
too much love is doomed to be a disaster.
A Dream of Red Mansions has a couplet:
Top couplet: there is no way to turn back.
No way to turn back.It has been a long-term blessing.
Jia Yucun was promoted in his early years, but not long after he was dismissed for being greedy for favoritism, he later became governor with the help of Jia Zheng, and was sentenced to the Hulu case for profit, lost his black hat and was sent to prison.
Wang Xifeng was in a high and powerful position, but she lost her life because she was greedy for petty gain.
the four families in A Dream of Red Mansions were originally rich, but they were trapped by desire and ended up falling apart.
cleverness is misled by cleverness. if you are greedy for small gains, you will often make a big stumble.
the benefits gained by overdraft will eventually be returned in another form.