Our ancestors left 9 words to tell us the taste of life.
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
We often say, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of us."
the words left by our ancestors are the accumulation of experience in daily life for many generations.
these words are easy to understand, concentrate the wisdom of the common people, and are worth pondering.
the following nine sentences can be said to give a full taste of life.
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I'd rather overeat than overtalk
means that overcooked food is no longer delicious, but it can also be eaten, because "you can't eat dead people."
if you exaggerate too much, you can't say it casually, because if you say it, it will bring disaster.
the ancients said: you can spit roses as well as thistles in your mouth.
many unnecessary troubles in life are often caused by the mouth.
therefore, only by practicing oral morality and speaking appropriately can you have a lot of good luck.
Master Hongyi once said, "to cultivate oneself is to clear one's heart, and to be cautious in dealing with the world."
speaking appropriately is a person's highest self-cultivation.
deceiving others is a curse, and forgiving people is a blessing
this remark comes from Lu Yan's "persuading the world" in the Tang Dynasty, and is selected from "Lu Zuzhi".
means that bullying brings evil, forgiving others' mistakes, and being generous to others brings good luck.
as a poem goes, "Don't deceive others. You must guard against retribution."
bullying others is not only an expression of inner cowardice, but also does not bring any glory to yourself.
on the contrary, the greatest virtue in life is forgiveness, forgiveness to others is to be kind to yourself, and the road is as wide as it is.
Mr. Shao Kangjie, an ideologist of the Northern Song Dynasty, once said:
"some people come to ask divination about what is misfortune or blessing.
it is a curse for me to lose others, and it is a blessing for others to lose me. "
the Confucianists also had poems that said, "there has always been a cycle of natural luck, and retribution reveals the relationship between good and evil."
more kindness, less care, life is free and wide.
A hundred worries about losing and forgetting, and a hundred coincidences losing a sincere
said that Gu Tuhe was "Ren Yun" in the Qing Dynasty.
means that no matter how carefully considered, negligence may lead to failure.
No matter how exquisite the craftsmanship is, you cannot succeed without sincerity.
therefore, you should be serious and more sincere.
seriousness is the secret of success, and sincerity is the foundation of success.
there is an old Chinese saying: sincerity is glass, prudence is diamond.
only by being as transparent and sincere as glass can we win the trust of others.
do things like diamonds in order to be in an invincible position.
therefore, the most important thing in being a person lies in the word "true".
really serious, serious people will not lose.
True in sincerity, sincere people go far.
chaos must come to an end, and there must be a reason
this sentence comes from Ji Xiaolan's "Reading Weitang Notes".
means that everything, no matter how complex it seems, has internal cause and effect.
therefore, most of the time, you don't have to be in too much of a hurry, you have to learn to wait.
wait precisely because the conditions are not ripe.
just as the iron tree blossoms only once in a thousand years, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
most of the time, you don't have to complain too much.
remember that the fruit you bear at present, bitter or sweet, is the cause of your previous planting.
therefore, if you want to be a rainbow in the future, you can only go through both ups and downs today.
A good traveler drowns and a good rider falls
this sentence comes from Huainan Zi Dao Xun.
as the saying goes, those who drown can swim, and those who fall off a horse can ride a horse.
there is never a "foolproof" in this world, and people are most likely to stumble where they are good at.
you know, "what you think you are best at is often your weakness."
there is a saying in the Book of morality:
people should learn to hide their edge and should not be fearless at any time.
because everything you rely on has changeable factors, it may not be firm, but it will become your "stumbling block" at a critical time.
so, at all times, you should go all out and be careful in order to avoid unnecessary mistakes and disasters.
one chopstick is easy to break, and ten chopsticks are as hard as iron
as the saying goes: a hero has three gangs and a fence has three stakes.
in this world, no one can be independent, and strong people also need help.
there is an old saying in China:
A flower is not spring, but a garden is full of colors.
No matter how strong a person's ability is, he will be weak after all.
but if you can gather a group of like-minded people, it will become a powerful force that can change a lot of things!
Ren Zhengfei once said:
"No matter how hard one tries, one can never keep up with the pace of the times.
not to mention in the era of knowledge explosion.
only by organizing dozens, hundreds, and thousands of people to struggle together, can you touch the feet of the times when you stand on it. "
so, no one has ever casually succeeded, and life needs help.