People who are really good are forced out.
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
American President Lincoln told such a story:
when he and his friends were young, they used to plow cornfields on the farm.
but the horse leading the plow stops and stops and works very slowly.
but for a while, the horse walked very fast, and then it was discovered that the horse was followed by a horsefly.
it is the bite of the horse fly that makes the horse run very fast.
this is the famous "horsefly effect" in psychology.
No matter how lazy a horse is, as long as it meets a horse fly, it will run very fast; no matter how ordinary people, as long as they exert the right pressure, they will work hard.
there is a sentence in "Volleyball Boys":
if people want to make a breakthrough, they must put pressure on themselves.
if you don't push yourself, you never know how high a mountain you can stand.
01
Zeng Guofan said: "all failures are due to laziness, failures are due to pride, and family failures are due to extravagance."
many people in life do not want to bear hardships and do nothing, but envy the success of others.
No one is born good, the so-called bright and beautiful, behind are unknown persistence.
they dare to step out of the comfort zone and continue to hone to become better.
in the movie the King's speech, King George VI suffers from severe stuttering and is unable to speak in public.
this is not a problem if it is the period of monarchy, but in the time of George VI, the royal family has been demoted to a civilian.
the role of the king is to give speeches on specific occasions to stabilize the hearts and minds of the people.
but George VI's stuttering made it impossible for him to accomplish even the simplest task.
to this end, he practices hard day after day.
finally in the formal speech, I finished the speech fluently and moved everyone present.
it's easy to stay where you are, but it also becomes a yoke that binds you to move forward.
as the old saying goes:
if you want to get better, you must experience pain.
those good people are good precisely because they are willing to fight against inertia and live side by side with pain.
only when you have experienced pain can you enjoy the joy of growth and progress.
overcome inertia and strive to move forward. Only by pushing yourself can you know how good you are.
02
I often hear people around me complain:
"I've worked very hard, why are I still spinning around?"
"I feel like I've done my best. Why can't I compete with others?"
A lot of people say "effort", but they don't try their best.
there is a famous "Moore's Law" in the chip field: the number of components that can be contained on
integrated circuits doubles every once in a while, and the performance improves.
but the problem is that the maximum number can only hold 7nm (nanometers).
after continuous research in recent years, scientists have broken through the limit and finally raised the physical limit of silicon chips to 2nm.
most of the time, the limit we think is just a new starting point, and the ability that we cannot have is only because it has not been inspired.
do you remember boxing world champion Zhang Weili?
as the first Chinese to win a championship in UFC boxing history, she beat Brazilian female boxing champion Andrade in 42 seconds, winning applause in the house.
before that, she also experienced a long "dark moment":
was sent to learn Sanda by her parents at the age of 12, and each time she was beaten black and blue by her brothers;
17 years old, she was unable to participate in the competition because of multiple injuries caused by intensive training.
after being selected into the professional team, she faced a nine-month injury due to a waist strain.
running, playing with sandbags and practicing boxing, she is often beaten black and blue, her head broken and bleeding.
but she never gave up and worked hard all the way.
such "hellish" training has finally come to fruition.
in the top combat arena in the world, Zhang Weili won honor for herself with her fist and made a legend.
most of the time, the dignity of adults is given by ability. And the improvement of ability is mostly forced out.
it takes longer to achieve; if you want to be different from others, you have to go a long way.
push yourself once when you give up, and you may have another life.
03
some people have summed up the five major performances of contemporary waste, which have been unanimously recognized by many netizens.
No effort, no gain.
what kind of life you want, what kind of effort you have to make.
because life is your own, you can only make your own decisions.
there are two groups of migrant workers: a group of migrant workers think that if they are drunk today, they can live one day after another.
they eat cheap noodles, stay in dirty hotels and do the most effortless jobs.
when the factory goes bankrupt and shuts down, their lives are also threatened. Once handsome migrant workers end up becoming beggars living on the streets.
while another group of people, who are also migrant workers, live a completely different life.
they work hard every day, finally break down regional barriers, break through social strata, and become leaders in the city through their own efforts.
there is a Western proverb:
every state of life is the result of one's own choice.
Life will not be unkind to everyone who works hard. When you give everything, you will naturally gain the life you want.
as Li Ka-shing said:
"have you ever thought of an ordinary one?In life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks.
if you want to live the best life, you will encounter the strongest harm.
the world is fair. If you want the best, it will give you the most pain.
the so-called success does not depend on how successful you are, nor does it mean that you betray yourself, but whether you tide over the difficulties with a smile! " That's exactly what
says.
04
as the old saying goes, "asking for help is like swallowing a three-foot sword, relying on a man is like going up to heaven."
everyone has their own difficulties. Others can help you for a while, but not for the rest of your life.
fighting for what you want and relying on yourself is the only way out in life.
once, Su Shi and Zen Master Foyin went to Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou.
it was very strange to see the Guanyin Bodhisattva in the main hall holding a string of rosary beads.
Su Shi asked the Zen master:
"the world is reading the name of Guanyin Bodhisattva, hoping to get her protection."
Why does the Bodhisattva also have a rosary in her hand? whose name is she reading? "
the Zen master said, "he is also a Quan Yin Bodhisattva."
Su Shi was even more puzzled: "Why did she miss herself?"
instead of relying on others, it is better to rely on yourself.
because no one is a safe haven forever, there are always a lot of things to carry.
A person's greatest honor is himself; a person's best luck is hard work.
to open up the road and build a bridge in the face of water, only by relying on yourself can we win the life we want and live the life we want.
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Liu Yong once said:
if you don't push yourself, you will never know how good you really are.
instead of putting your fate in the hands of others, you'd better be hard on yourself.
willing to force and dare to bear.
people, always push yourself.
when you move forward, you will find:
those seemingly calm day after day, those rough and rugged roads are long and long, and will eventually become a bright light that cuts through the night.
even if it is an abyss right now, if you push yourself, there will be thousands of miles ahead.
encourage each other.