Please be a happy fool for the rest of your life

Carnegie said in the weakness of Human Nature: "many of the troubles in life come from blindly keeping up with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life."

Life is too short to be affected by meaningless things that affect our enjoyment of happiness.

Please be a happy fool for the rest of your life.

01

there is a kind of tiredness, which is called thinking too much

thinking too much is a kind of suffering and torture, and it is a self-directed and self-acting disaster.

once saw a user on Zhihu, sharing the trouble that he thought too much.

he is sensitive and paranoid, and he often magnifies other people's words and deeds easily.

for example, when three people are together, they will care very much that the other two people have said two more words;

when there is no reply in the group, he will be very embarrassed and wonder if other people don't like themselves and whether they have done something wrong;

when they find that no one else is there, they will think that others will eat together but do not call him.

if a friend doesn't reply to a message, it's natural to wonder if the other person is prejudiced against him, but in fact the friend is just busy.

because of these "wishful thinking", he fell into internal friction, emotionally unstable and worried about gain and loss.

once people like to think too much, they will be unhappy.

not only wastes time, but also causes serious consumption to one's own spirit.

Don't think too much and become the main theme of your life.

Don't think too much in your head and suffer from wishful thinking.

Don't pretend to be too much in your heart.

take a look at life, and life will be gentle to you.

instead of letting yourself feel tired from the bottom of your heart, let yourself live simply and happily.

02

A good mood

from the beginning of letting go of the past

can not let go of the past, can not start a new life.

through the dark days, facing the sun after facing it calmly.

Yan Youyun, a socialite from old Shanghai, lived through great winds and waves at the age of 112, but she remained optimistic.

once, her husband was killed in her early years, but she did not lead a negative life and took on the responsibility of raising her children on her own.

once, a thief broke into her house and stole many of her precious things.

A lot of people went to comfort her, but she said, "anything bad can happen, which is the least serious." I just lost my belongings and everything else that was important was unharmed-my life, my health and my family. "

in her old age, Yan Youyun of Amy experienced a long period of teething and grinding, but when the driver slammed on the brakes in a taxi, her teeth fell out.

her daughter was sad and sorry, but she said, "it's all right, it's all right. I think I lost this tooth on my own. Maybe it doesn't want to install it yet."

Yan Youyun often says that the translation of "present moment" in English is "present", while "present" means "gift" in English. Therefore, every moment is a gift from God, so you must enjoy it.

she was once interviewed by the media and asked about the secret of longevity, she shared: "Don't be sad about the past, always look forward."

Life is too short, there is no need to worry too much with life, life can not regret, in fact, you can turn a corner.

letting go is not only a kind of mentality, but also another kind of heaven and earth.

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sad only for a while, let it go and be open-minded for a lifetime.

03

be a happy fool

Balzac said: "Life is made up of different changes, cycles of pain and joy. The blue sky that will never change exists only in the heart, and it is an extravagant hope to ask for real life. "

cherish life and be content is the true meaning of life.

there is a hotel in Los Angeles where three children do their homework every day, which is to write thank-you letters.

the content of the thank-you letter is actually very simple: "the wild flowers by the roadside are so beautiful", "the pizza I ate yesterday smells good", "my mother told me a very interesting story yesterday".

they wrote more about gratitude and love for one vegetable, one flower and one grass, and the little things in life.

they appreciate the hard work of their parents, the help of their partners, the cleanliness of the sanitation workers, and the love and company of their brothers and sisters.

there are many small details that we ignore and things we take for granted that we should be grateful for.

Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it smiles at you; if you cry to it, it cries to you.

in life, always remember the things you are grateful for, and don't dwell on the things that make you unhappy.

as Daniel Defoe wrote in Robinson Crusoe, "We always feel lacking and dissatisfied because we lack gratitude for what we have got."

if people live too seriously and too sober, they will be very depressed instead of being confused and happier.

know how to cherish what you have;

know how to give what you get;

know how to let go of what is lost;

only in this way can you live happily.

as Helen Keller said, "I find life so beautiful."

there is nothing in the world to worry about.

Life is simple, not burdened by the secular world, but can protect its innocence, let nature take its course, and think about it.On the other side.