Signs that a person is getting better and better: few words, physical diligence, peace of mind

everyone yearns for prosperity, but few people think about the logic behind it.

in fact, there are always traces of things moving in a certain direction.

the so-called good luck also comes from daily practice.

A person is getting better or worse. One or two can be seen from many details of life.

those who live well all have these three good habits. I hope you can also develop them.

01

few words: be humble and keep a low profile

Xie Juezai wrote in the Collection of No doubts: "those who have little knowledge are not modest; those who are knowledgeable and capable must be modest."

half a bucket of water shakes loudest.

those who make a fortune are silent.

it is said in Xunzi: "neglect to forget oneself is a disaster."

the more arrogant and unrespectful society is, the easier it is to offend people and suffer great losses in the end.

Bai Juyi, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, often wrote poems with humility.

every time he writes a poem, he reads it to the cowboy and the old woman first.

if none of these people understand, Bai Juyi will revise it over and over again until everyone can understand it and praise it.

it is precisely because of such an open mind that Bai Juyi has won the name of "Poetry Devil" and "King of Poetry". He has written a masterpiece through the ages: the red flowers of the sunrise river are as red as fire, and the river water is as green as blue in spring.

the sea is at a low potential, so it holds everything.

the mountain is silent, so it overlooks sentient beings.

"it is easy to be full of disasters, but modesty is always blessed."

humble and low-key for the rest of my life.

02

physical diligence: self-discipline exercise, reading in your spare time

I have heard such a sentence: "exercise makes the body healthy and reading opens the eye pattern." A person is either busy with sports or studying hard. "

people who love sports will not be in poor health.

people who study hard will not have low horizons.

Ouyang Xiu put forward the "three calligraphy" in the Book of return to Tianlu:

he said: "most of the articles written in my life are on the 'three','on the pillow 'and' on the toilet', but this can especially belong to Sier."

Ouyang Xiu likes reading and writing all his life, even on horseback, on pillows, and on toilets.

Zhu Xi, a thinker, said: "read a hundred times, its meaning is self-evident."

Modern people's life is fragmented, inseparable from mobile phones, immersed in hot news.

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maybe we are not as diligent as the ancients, but we can set aside 10 minutes before going to bed to read some classic books.

after a long time, their thoughts and horizons are naturally different from those of other people.

read wisely and exercise to strengthen your body.

both soul and body need to be taken into account.

Mr. Yuan Longping still keeps on exercising at the age of 90.

he likes volleyball and swimming, and he won the championship in the school sports meeting when he was young.

No matter how busy he is at work, he will walk along the edge of the field so as not to let himself relax.

A person's true self-discipline is to spend time on himself.

good luck will naturally gather around you if you are not wasted, decadent or lazy.

03

peace of mind

it is easier to be clever than to be confused.

put it aside, take a step back, and feel at ease right now.

Hanshan was a poet monk in the Tang Dynasty, and no one knows his real name.

when he was a teenager, Hanshan lived the life of a rich family. He went to Beijing many times to take the imperial examination, but lost the election.

with a lot of pain, he traveled all over the world in cold mountains and ended up living in seclusion in Guoqing Temple in Tiantai Mountain.

have daily conversations with eminent monks, with a light meal and a refreshing breeze in the bamboo forest.

he wrote: "the spring water in Bijian is clear, and the moon in the cold mountain is white. Knowing that God is self-evident, watching the sky surpass the silence. "

Hanshan looks down on fame and wealth, being a confused person, half awake and half dream, half hidden and half obvious.

"if you don't understand, you will never be worried when you sit still."

all things in the world, peace is better, some things, some people, do not have to be bitter about it.

appearance is easy to grow old, years are easy to pass, and all gains are due to loss.

for the rest of my life, be a confused person, live in seclusion in Linquan, keep company with poetry and wine, and don't fight with the world.

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I have heard such a passage: "No matter how important face is, it is not as important as life." No matter how good-looking the face is, it is not as comfortable as being at ease. "

the sign that a person is getting better and better is to put himself first.

humility leads to continuous blessings;

reading and exercise enriches oneself;

is rarely confused and leisurely.

the so-called way uphill is to be diligent and down-to-earth, not to keep up with the comparisons, and to go further and further.