The people who give way to you are not afraid of you, not owe you, but.

once, we thought: let, is because the heart owes, feels guilty.

after experiencing the warmth and warmth of human feelings and watching the worldly experience, we can more and more deeply understand the true meaning of the phrase "giving way to one step higher and treating others with leniency is a blessing."

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it turns out that the people who give way to you are not afraid of you or owe you, but respect you and care about you.

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Let you not be afraid of you

, but cultivate a high self-cultivation

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Let you not be afraid of you

, but cultivate yourself

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people who are willing to give way to others are often gentle, generous and good-natured people.

their eyes will not just stay in front of the matter.

their steps will not be stopped by entanglements of interests.

this is the couplet next to the statue of Maitreya at Tanzhe Temple in Beijing. In just two sentences, it tries to give way to the hearts of those who can.

most of the time, modest people are not timid, stupid and clumsy, but live thoroughly and their hearts are like mirrors.

A Zen master and a young monk went on a long trip.

on the way, the Zen master was staggered by a man who ran over in a hurry, and there was a pain in his chest.

although the man knew he was wrong, he first blamed the Zen master:

in the face of the man's unreasonable and evil remarks, the Zen master did not get angry and did not argue with the man, but just smiled.

the man looked even more arrogant when he saw this:

then he took off.

after the man left, Xiao Sha Mi, who followed him, asked the Zen master angrily:

while picking up the luggage that had just been dropped by the collision, the Zen master slowly said:

the little monk realized:

it was not because he was afraid of him, but because he did not want to easily break the principle of being kind and courteous to others, and he did not want to delay their itinerary.

in the book "those things of the Ming Dynasty", there is a sentence that is enlightening and directed at the hearts of the people:

"We can know from history that tolerance has never been weak."

to let others, not to yield, let alone to show weakness, but a kind of magnanimous self-cultivation, is a state of tolerance.

Let others be neither incompetent nor afraid, but have a wider world in their hearts, so they can always stick to their own self-cultivation.

02

Let you, not owe you

but care about you

there was a very popular story on the Internet:

A husband and his wife were playing chess, looking at the chessboard, the husband knew the victory was in hand, and could not help humming a little song.

when the wife realized that the situation was not good, she began to cheat, ignoring any rules of chess.

first say that your horse is Chollima, so you can run directly to his general and eat soldiers.

after a while, she said that her elephant was Dumbo and could fly over and eat his taxi.

although the husband had no choice but to give way to his wife, he continued to lock in the victory.

unexpectedly, the wife finally made a big move, saying that the husband's taxi was an undercover who had been lurking for many years and could directly eat his general. It is conceivable that his wife won the game of chess in the end.

after reading this story, many people laugh at the husband's helplessness, but there are also many people who envy the wife's happiness.

imagine, in this world, who would let himself be wronged for no reason to accommodate an unimportant person?

No one is stupid, willing to give way to you, just because they care; no one owes each other, willing to tolerate, all because of importance.

people who give way to you put your happiness first. As for winning or losing, as for their own feelings, they are not as important as you.

parents give way to you and tolerate your capriciousness because they love their children, so they soften their hearts again and again;

your partner lets you, does not fight with you for right or wrong, and indulges you because they cherish this relationship very much. So they are willing to admit defeat;

friends give way to you and tolerate some of your bad temper, because they value affection and righteousness, even if they suffer losses.

there are never feelings between people for no reason.

the person who is willing to let you, the person who can let you, must be the one who takes an important place in his heart.

for someone as nice as you, there are only a handful of times you can meet in your life, so cherish it.

03

Let you for a while, will not let you

there is a good saying:

"there is no natural good temper, only a tolerant heart."

but after all, people grow in flesh, no one can be wronged all the time, and everyone is vulnerable.

give way for a while, but not for a lifetime.

A gentleman gives way to the villain and gives way to courtesy, but if the other party does not know how to give up as soon as possible, but unscrupulous, this comity will be withdrawn.

people who care about you let you, let you love, but if this feeling is not well cherished, no matter how hot the heart will cool.

No matter what feelings you treat, don't take each other's tolerance for granted, let alone take an inch because of the tolerance of others.

always remember: the person who gives way to you is the one who respects you and treats you. Don't be indifferent and don't let you down easily.