Whether he loves you or not will be known after the holiday.

01

people who love you will spend time with you.

I remember that on New year's Eve last year, my colleague Xiao Lin personally cooked a good meal and set off fireworks with his girlfriend, counting down to the New year.

he also gave his girlfriend the scarf he had knitted for a month.

he said that his girlfriend was usually afraid of cold and bad blood, so he knitted a scarf for her.

in fact, the gift does not have to be very valuable, what matters is the love and attention behind the gift.

because feelings cannot be measured by matter.

the most ordinary romance is to remember each other's every word and realize it according to the vision in the other person's heart at the right time.

A conscientious boy will always surprise you inadvertently and give you all the blatant preferences and spoils.

if a person is always perfunctory in the holiday season, looking for all kinds of excuses, then there is a good chance that he will not love you enough.

A person who is not even willing to spend time with you on holiday day 365 days a year, he just doesn't want to be free for you.

Don’t you think that it is time to add some super trendy cheap white formal dresses to your wardrobe? Ideal choices for your big days!

whether it's Christmas, New year's Eve, birthdays or anniversaries, people who love you will always try to celebrate with you and bring their hearts closer to each other.

Deng Chao and Sun Li are also one of the model couples among the stars.

it was Sun Li's birthday. Deng Chao sent a Weibo message to wish her birthday at 09:26.

the picture is accompanied by nine 09:26 lock screen screenshots, which took nine months to collect.

netizens have said: such an intention is simply too loving!

A good love is not how much it costs, but how much thought and time he can spend for you.

the holiday is not necessarily moved by the material pile, but by feeling that you are taken to heart from the little things.

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the ritual feeling of the festival is the preservative of love

in the Little Prince, the fox said to the little prince:

Huang Lei once said, "I am very opposed to husband and wife becoming relatives, relatives are relatives, for example, my mother is my relative, but my wife is my lover, my lover, my couple, she is different."

I think so.

Family affection depends on inertia, love needs passion.

and the ritual feeling of the festival is the antistaling agent of love.

Huang Lei and Sun Li have been married for 20 years, and love itself is also happy and sweet. Although there is a lot of love in marriage, there is no lack of occasional ritual and romantic feelings in life.

on the 20th wedding anniversary, Huang Lei held a new wedding, with two daughters in the company, and the two walked into the marriage hall again with romantic music, continuing their previous promise.

I can't help feeling that only those who manage attentively will be happier and happier.

in the variety film 21 days before Marriage, the first paragraph of the introduction is particularly poignant:

"if there is no birthday, growing up will not be marked;

without graduation, there is no formal beginning of the new journey;

rituals remind us of where we come from, where we are going, and who we love."

that's a good thing to say. The sense of ritual is everywhere. If we don't have a sense of ritual, how should we mark time and record the beauty of life?

if life is full of firewood, rice, oil and salt, why not add some good sense of ritual in the trivial time?

all the rituals remind us to love and be loved.

I saw a fan contribute on Weibo:

she went to livehouse, and her boyfriend made a support card for her.

on the first anniversary of her relationship, she received a double ebony cat's paw ring made by her boyfriend and a homemade photo album documenting their journey.

03

whether he loves you or not is hidden in the details

Haruki Murakami said:

"when walking, it is a ceremony for you to squat down and tie my shoes;

when you go shopping, you specially remember that my favorite clothes were bought for me as a ceremony;

on your birthday, the first knife you cut the cake was the ceremony."

in fact, the sense of ritual is full of every aspect of our lives, and these small details bear witness to the heart in love.

in addition to the holidays, you can see whether a man loves you or not in the details of ordinary life.

as one girl said, her boyfriend is not a rich second generation, but she can feel in detail that she has been loved with all her heart.

she doesn't like scallions. When ordering takeout, her boyfriend will remember not to add scallions. When she goes out for dinner, her boyfriend will always help her pick out the scallions first.

before her period, her boyfriend always remembers the days to remind her not to drink ice. When her period is uncomfortable, her boyfriend will also make brown sugar and ginger tea. Because ginger can be spicy, he specially adds red dates to neutralize the spicy taste.

she always forgets to bring a belt, so her boyfriend often puts a belt on her and ties it up for her at dinner.

these mundane details are the reason for her to decide not to marry unless he does.

the love that girls need is not only high-end brand-name bags and large red envelopes, but also the feeling of being valued and loved behind the details.

Yu Qiuyu said:

Love is the tickets of long-distance love.

Love is when someone is with you when you are happy.

Love is in its twilight years, and I still play on the swing with you like a child.

if you pay attention to each other in details, you will be able to make your relationship happier.